You see, so much about becoming good with women and dating is about becoming good with yourself.Being a man is about reaching your own personal apex. And then she heads home and meets the guy she really wants to be with. Westside Market NYC’s Maria Zoitas (you may remember her easy baked salmon or chicken and rice recipe) is here with her delicious—and surprisingly healthy—take on a classic comfort food, Homemade Italian Meatloaf. Just prep your loaf as soon as you get home from work or the gym, then pop it in the oven for 45 minutes while you shower. She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.The guys that care too much lowers his own value and doesn’t create sentiments of allure because guys that care too much are telling women– through concern, through availability, through his being there too much- that he is in fact, not special or unique at all. He is more available than hydrogen, more common than dirt, and freer to talk to than the operator at Home Depot – but a smooth operator he is not.. She’ll run faster than Usain Bolt in the Olympics and any person who has respect for himself would do the same.
Because when you’re soft (expressing feminine character), you put the woman above you on a pedestal (forcing her to take on the masculine role).
When you use money to take a woman out to nice dinners and to buy her gifts too early in the relationship, the woman will begin to think the man is trying to BUY her affection. And if she actually likes this then my advice to men is: RUN!
Personality is the key to being good with women and dating. Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.
Listen up I have news for you: If you want to be good with high quality women, Take surfing for example: During the course of learning how to surf, you can’t just say, “I only want to surf 10 foot waves. Just like surfing, with continuous practice, you can improve with women and dating.
Reality Check: Driving a car at 80mph and changing lanes with other cars on a freeway is more dangerous than approaching and talking to a girl you find attractive.Believe it or not, women hate being put on a pedestal!